| Location | Glasgow, Scotland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 07/05/1971 |
| Date of Death | 10/05/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,241 since 17/10/2008 |
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Stuart was my 'big' brother - by 20 minutes and about a foot! He was my twin brother. Due to an unsettled early childhood, he was very protective over me, even though I often did not apprecite it. We were forever getting into trouble, both blaming each other, and falling out over it. But, no matter how long it took, we would eventually be friends again.
I always knew that during our times of not speaking, if I needed him, all I had to do was get the message to him, and he'd be there.
He had a lot of friends, and had finally started to look forward to the future when he died. Stuart has a daughter, whom he never saw much of, but who he never forgot, who he loved so much, and who he couldn't wait to see again.
Stuart at times was troubled, and only ever wanted to be popular and to be loved. But he never realised just how much he was loved. So many people had so much time for him, and so many people really did care about him.
Stuart died while having drinks and kebabs with a number of his closest friends, celebrating his 37th birthday. He died peacefully, totally unaware he was choking. He had enjoyed himself, had shared his last moments with his friends, and died with a smile on his face, showing how happy and relaxed he had finally become.
Stuart will forever be missed, forever be loved, not just by his twin sister, but by all his family and friends, and especially his daughter.
A much loved son, brother, father and friend. Love you Stupot xxxx Rest In Peace xxxxx
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Another day has gone
I'm still all alone
How could this be
You're not here with me
You never said goodbye
Someone tell me why
Did you have to go
And leave my world so cold
Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay
But you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
But you are not alone
All alone,
'Why, oh
Just the other night
I thought I heard you cry
Asking me to come
And hold you in my arms
I can hear your prayers
Your burdens I will bear
But first I need your hand
Then forever can begin
Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay
For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
For you are not alone
Whisper three words and I'll come runnin'
And girl you know that I'll be there
I'll be there
You are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay
For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you're far away
I am here to stay
For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we're far apart
You're always in my heart
For you are not alone.
A year away already
A year has gone by already. Doesn't feel real at times. You would have liked watching deal or no deal this week, with them all in their mad clown outfits! You really were mad at times hehe.
Well, as you'll know, I have a busy day tomorrow, so I'm hoping you'll be there with me and helping me! Sometimes people ask me if I felt your pain, or if you felt my pain, and I guess we did at times. Like when you had morning sickness when I was pregnant with Andrew! And I suspect I felt yours too when I felt too ill to go out for a birthday drink last year. Odd as I always thought you had to be indentical twins to have that kind of connection! But I'm glad we did have a sort of connection, and I hope it's still here with me.
Take care and look after those who love you both here and wherever you are xx
do you know the number
please do you know the number for heaven up above i want to make a call to someone that i love,telephone directories enquiries,oh yes i have tried them all,i even asked the local priest because he talks to god you see i thought he,d have a direct line but he was no help to me,i tried the yellow pages but nothing seem to fit i just want to talk to you for just a little bit, love theresa xxx
my son,dearest Stuart
Thinking of you, happily, constanly, lovingly, sadly. You are always in my thoughts. my gorgeous clown.Mum
A very dear son
Thinking of you happily, constantly, lovingly and sadly.You are always in my thoughts. Mum 7.6.09
do you know the number
please do you know the number for heaven up above i want to make a call to someone that i love,telephone directories enquiries,oh yes i have tried them all,i even asked the local priest because he talks to god you see i thought he,d have a direct line but he was no help to me,i tried the yellow pages but nothing seem to fit i just want to talk to you for just a little bit,love theresa xxx
I listened to some music last night that made me smile. Hearing Yazz singing The Only Way Is Up always makes me think of you, because you had such a fancy for Yazz! Then listening to T-Rex with To Know You Is To Love You, I remember nicking your cd to copy that track, and when I sneaked the cd back, it jumped - you went nuts lol. And Westbam's Celebration Generation - it was one of the few 'noisy' tracks you had that I actually liked! I would have played it at your funeral, but didn't think Mum would have appreciated it haha. It was difficult trying to find a track by that group (can't remember their name but that guy Pete that went with Kate Moss is in it lol), I had to find one with no swearing and that wasn't too 'noisy' for the Crematorium! trust you to have such tastes in music! And I played Puff Daddy for the first time since your funeral. I was okay hearing it, but I didn't really listen to the words, which probably made it easier for me.
Sophie talks about you from time to time, even though she never really knew you. She sees your pictures in the cabinet, and thinks it's great coz your date of birth is on it, and now she knows how old I am, and thinks I'm ancient! Do you remember being that kind of age and thinking 20 was old, never mind being in the 30s? Lol. Marc looks so like you in his school photo, it's scary! I didn't think the kids looked much like you, but I guess they do seeing as they look like me lol.
I've not spoken with Mum about you for a while, she's off doing lots of things, maybe to keep herself from spending too much time thinking of you (I don't mean that in a bad way tho). I worry she's doing too much, but she's too far away for me to try to stop her. Like she'd listen eh! It's hard too, coz she's bound to think of you when she hears from me or sees me, and I don't want to get her upset all over again. I think everyone is still a bit in shock, still trying to believe you really have gone for good. But we all hope you've found a better and more peaceful place. Miss you always xxxx
Read at the scattering of Stuart's ashes, by his neice Michelle
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.
Another angel gone to soon
God bless you Stuart . I am so glad you never suffered , May you rest in peace forever more.
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